klisemfg Chapter 518: Giving birth to a child cannot be linked to your last wish
Chapter 518: Giving birth to a child cannot be linked to your last wish
Zuo Zuying sat down on the stool, "Okay, okay, if you're happy, just say it once when you see someone."
"Your marriage..."
After receiving Hou Li's death gaze, Zuo Zuying's tone immediately softened, "If you get married, get married. I don't have anything to say if the second child wants it, but since you married my second child, you should treat my second child well. She can It’s not like there’s no support.”
After seeing off Liu Hongtao, Zuo Zuying immediately winked at Su An and asked her to cooperate with him.
"What, my second son, I don't have any problem with you two getting together, and I'll follow suit when you get married. Mom is right, it's pretty good for that kid to be able to do this."
"But let me tell you, in the past few years of your career, your focus has been on your career. It doesn't matter if your child is born a few years later. Don't be anxious. Isn't he going to set up a school for you to play in? Just have fun."
After all, Zuo Jinghuan was not married yet, so she was a little embarrassed.
"What nonsense are you talking about? My grandma is not in good health. Her biggest wish is to see Liu Hongtao, the grandson she cares most about who she raised, get married and have children. Since they are already married, they will have children anyway, so I can fulfill my wish for the old lady. No, that’s fine too.”
"And Liu Hongtao said that he was raised by his grandmother. In his heart, his grandmother is more important than his mother. He also wants to make the elderly happy."
Zuo Zuying raised his eyebrows and said in a strange tone, "What are you so anxious about? You haven't even gotten married yet and you are so anxious to have a baby. Will the baby be used as a medicine introduction for the old lady after giving birth? Or maybe she needs placenta blood to save her life or something? ? Then I have to ask Liu Hongtao first."
"What, or is it that Liu Hongtao's grandmother is seriously ill and this is the best aphrodisiac for him? He hasn't even entered the house yet, but he is already thinking about having a baby."
Zuo Jinghuan stood up with a bang, "Zuo Zuying, don't talk too much!"
Hou Li also glared at him, "Why are you talking? That woman doesn't get married and has children?"
Zuo Zuying frowned, "Who am I doing it for? I'm not doing it for my second son."
"From Liu Hongtao's tone on weekdays, it can be seen that the whole family is filial, and he pays special attention to the old lady. The old lady always needs someone to take care of her. Liu Hongtao is busy with business, and his mother's health is not good. If the second child is pregnant at this time, who will take care of her, and she may have to take care of the old lady with a pregnant belly. "
He had seen news about this kind of thing in his previous life. Zuo Zuying rolled his eyelids up, glanced at Zuo Jinghuan and lowered them again.
"My daughter-in-law is pregnant. She is the treasure of the whole family. When she becomes pregnant, she will have to help the whole family take care of the old lady. Won't she feel aggrieved then?"
"When she was pregnant, her husband and mother-in-law accompanied her for a check-up. When she was pregnant, she went for a prenatal check-up by herself, and she also took the old lady for a follow-up check-up."
"One more thing, people here generally prefer boys over girls. Haven't you heard that the old lady's family wants Liu Hongtao to "get married and have children"? If they want to have children, not girls, they might even arrest you for the old lady's last wish. The B-ultrasound is looking at boys and girls.”
"No matter how scary it is, if you are still a month and a half away from being born, the old lady can't wait any longer. Since their family values the old lady, they might ask you to perform an autopsy in advance."
Seeing that both Zuo Jinghuan and Hou Li looked ugly, Zuo Zuying's tone softened.
"I'm not saying not to have children. Children must be born, but you can't have children deliberately to please the old lady. Children are not tools you use to coax the old lady, right? If you really promise this, if you really go to that point At that time, you said B-ultrasound or not?
"If you don't do it, the person may not be able to bear it and leave without closing his eyes. Then it will be your responsibility. Why do you have to carry such a heavy stone on yourself for no reason?"
"Having a child is a good thing, but you have to hang on to the old lady's last wish. Have you ever thought about the pressure involved?"
"And if, I mean just in case, this kind of thing happens, and the old lady didn't see her great-grandson, and she didn't even close her eyes when she left, do you think you will bear this responsibility or not?"
"To put it another way, Liu Hongtao's family is very good, and you are willing to show it to the old lady. After seeing this, the child's birthday will be the death anniversary of the old man. Will the child have birthdays in the future?"
Zuo Jinghuan said dryly, "This, this is all your random speculation."
Zuo Zuying sighed, "That's why I asked you to know more about him. Liu Hongtao seems to be a good person now, but who knows what his family is like. Anyway, you'd better not make any promises to their family as soon as possible." Being pregnant will allow the old lady to hold her great-grandson and so on.”
"Don't look at it as a good thing on the surface. In fact, there are so many troubles behind it."
Su An originally thought that Zuo Zuying was so hostile to Liu Hongtao because he was jealous. Jealous that Liu Hongtao had married his sister who had always loved him back home. Now it seemed that this boy was thinking very far ahead.
In fact, she doesn't quite understand the kind of elders who get sick and don't seek medical advice quickly to improve the survival rate of their loved ones. She also doesn't think of ways to take better care of the patients. Instead, they run away to get married and have children.
The key point is that there are quite a few people who do this.
After receiving Zuo Zuying's signal, Su An persuaded her hard, "Jing Huan, I think what Xiao Zuo said makes sense."
"You said that if you want to get pregnant in an ordinary family, it may be the treasure of the whole family, but if there are patients at home to take care of, you may not be so thoughtful."
"Brother Tao and I have known each other for such a long time, and he is quite nice. I have also heard him say that he has a deep relationship with his grandma, and his mother is indeed not in good health. It is because of his bad health that he has always been taken care of by his grandma. "
"It is indeed fate that you can be together. I am also very happy for you. I wish you all the best. But Xiao Zuo is your brother, and he will not harm you. We will not say anything about having a child deliberately, just let it take its course. Of course, even if you get pregnant, don’t make any promises and don’t put so much pressure on yourself.”
"The old people here are indeed a bit patriarchal and a bit xenophobic. Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. In the future, you have to integrate into their families. Brother Tao has his own career, so it is impossible for him to get married in one day. If I stay with you later, you won’t understand their dialect, and you will feel even more lonely or like an outsider.”
"At this time, if you have your own career and your own work to be busy with, your life will be much more fulfilling."
Zuo Jinghuan listened honestly, "I know, I didn't think much about it. I just really like him, very much."